God calls us to lead lives of holiness. Jesus gave the most perfect example with his own life. But he gave us other examples of holiness in his own mother, the Virgin Mary, and the saints.
Saints are people to whom we can relate, essentially role models for the faithful. Saints do not forget those of us on Earth. They follow Jesus’ commandment to “love thy neighbor as thyself” (Matthew 22:39) even after death. In following this, saints pray intensely for those of us on Earth. And thank goodness, because we really need it!
While we ask saints for help, it is by God that our prayers are answered. Saints help us at the request of Jesus and through God’s power. When you pray to a saint, you’re not worshiping that saint. You’re asking for the saint to pray for you and ask God to help you.
God is the one acting in our lives, not the saints. They’re just the messengers showing us the way to reach the Lord.